Okay, okay, I know I’ve been pretty lax with the whole blogging thing, but I’ve been traveling as a doctor working at various places in need, plus there’s that lazy streak. I did want to say how much I love playing with my new granddaughter!
And below we have the downside of school beginning again: Lukas, my 15 year old is taking (gulp) chemistry this year. Yep, that means it’s time to up the insurance coverage for the house. He comes straight home after Driver’s Ed (another horror story in and of itself) and starts concocting the most creative and intricate experiments on his own. His projects are just for his own entertainment; they’re not assigned in class, and he loves it!! Right now he’s making hydrogen gas. He asked for volunteers to light the gas with a match to see if it was flammable and I’m like…”Isn’t there something called the Hydrogen Bomb?” Thanks but I want every one of my molecules, as droopy and tired as they are, to stick together.
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It’s all I can do to keep from running away to Canada with this beautiful angel, my first grandchild, Arleen Avery Medhus-Watts. She was born May 30th at 1:31 PM, weighs 6 pounds 7 ounces and is 18 inches long. She looks like both parents, gorgeous of course. Michelle handled everything like a trooper, especially considering it’s her first baby. Anyway, enough talk. See the proof in pictures below!
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At the risk of revealing myself as a freak of nature, I admit, I hate…no, wait, I DESPISE shopping. I’ve been this way since birth when I first flinched at the doctor fanning himself with the bill for his services, but it’s gotten a lot worse for many reasons. Like those marathon back-to-school shopping sessions with my mother who, bless her, had to clothe four little girls in something other than burlap or broiler foil. The waiting, the fighting, the threats of decade long punishments all took their toll. Having kids of my own sealed the deal. Sequential and relentless gimmes can wear a person down like a Makita industrial belt sander. Should be a New UN sanctioned form of torture. Unfortunately, my kids, especially my 13 year-old daughter, hold my disgust for shopping over my head with,” Why can’t you be like the other moms and go shopping with me?” and “You never like to do the things I like to do!” (Exits, stage left, Stomps to room, slams door.) Obviously she forgot our recent shopping spree at Charming Charlie’s where a tiny basket of “cheap” costume jewelry can break a bank account. Obviously, she forgot about our trip to the nail salon where I treated her to a mani-pedi (just learned that whole terminology, aren’t you proud?) Obviously, she forgot how intimidating a trip to the mall can be. And we’re not talking about the infamous Galleria here in Houston, which so happens to be WAY outside my comfortable one-square mile driving area. We’re talking about Memorial City Mall, just a couple of minutes from my front door. Just finding someone who speaks English is a challenge. There are probably more foreign immigrants per square inch there than in Ellis Island in the 1900s. Plus, you have to coordinate your shopping perfectly. If you get a couple of carts full at Target first and want to go to Abercrombie next, you can’t wheel the Target carts out into the mall. At a certain point, the chart won’t budge. I think they have that mutant Magneto buried under the flooring there. So you have to save Target for last or load your car with the Target purchases and drive to the other side of the mall for the rest of the shopping. Walking past kiosks can be a little tricky. Pushy salespeople (yes, all foreigners) thrust slices of soap in your face, ask to see your nails, try to squirt lotions on your hands and nosily inquire about your cell phone plan. But no worries, because I’ve devised a plan to circumvent their attack. First, put a determined look on your face and walk with hurried yet confident steps that say, “Piss off, peon, I’m important.” Never, and I mean NEVER make eye contact, because that’s just an invitation to seep into your personal space and latch on like fungus on a week-old slice of bread. Every once in a while, look at your watch because this tells them, “Back off, Jack. I’m late for the G-5 Summit.” This only backfires when you look at your bare wrist, which I’ve done. If you don’t wear a watch, fake a heated conversation on your cell phone about the benefits of sealed borders and deportation. Hmm. maybe this whole strategy will work when you come home after work only to find the kids are lined up at the door with every conceivable inconvenient or expensive request.
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As always, we went to see relatives in Norway for Spring Break. We have a chalet way up in the Tundra above Hol, Norway. We’re talking WAY off the grid. Quiet, relaxing and cold as hell. As nice a time as we had, it wasn’t without some jinxes. First of all, Kristina’s boss informed her at the last minute that she wouldn’t be able to take the time off. One paid ticket wasted. Next, during the flight over, I lost my palm pilot-my life, my central headquarters without which all the universe comes to a screeching halt. To make matters worse, when we landed in Oslo, our luggage wasn’t there. Apparently all four bags decided to party it up on the Champs Elysees rather than huddle in the sub-zero belly of an aluminum behemoth. Hmm, very weird. So I’ve gotta tell ya, hanging around among the moose in the tundra is loads of fun in short sleeves and funky 5 day-old underwear. I was expecting the Norwegian Health Board to place a moratorium on contact within 30 km of our chalet, but we got lucky, ha. On day 5, our luggage finally arrived. So we actually got to wear warm, clean clothes for the last 4 days of the trip. On the first leg back, my wedding ring slipped off my finger and down god knows how many rows. All the hands and knees searching was for nothing, because it was nowhere to be found. The flight attendants told us they wouldn’t be able to make an announcement for the passengers to look around the floor under their seats and basically blew us off, despite our wide-eyed stars of despair and panic. We never found it. Last but not least, when we got home to Houston, our bags were not there…again! That slow turn of an empty baggage carousel became a sickeningly familiar sight. That said, I’ve had enough traveling for a while. I’ll post some pictures on my facebook page: http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=17703&id=768318069
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I know what you guys are thinking: toddlers. The terrible twos. Potty training. Defiance. Putting scrambled eggs in the VCR. Oh, I wish your troubles disappear after that, but I’d be blowing smoke. Eighteen, that magical age when our kids are adults but have year to grow a brain and think that we don’t have one. They slip into this psychotic delusion that they can do what they want because of their adult status: smoke, stay out late on school nights, go off on road trips, neglect their chores, etc. What’s a parent to do beside pull out their hair and contemplate shoving them into the nearest recycling bin? Got just the answer for them. The old adage our parents used on us that we, the age of permissive, democratic parenting, cringe at. To get to the point, as long as their being sheltered, fed and clothed, they have to follow your rules. If they balk, let them go to school on roller skates to school. Better yet, let them pay for their own education. Throw their dirty laundry on the front porch so they can wash them in the nearest river when they’re finished loitering for hours at the nearest Starbucks. Make them pay for room and board or nail an eviction notice on their bedroom door. GET A FRIGGING JOB AND MOVE OUT! The real world is chock full of rules. That’s reality. Whether it’s the workplace, relationships, or laws, we’re all governed by rules, fair or not. The freedom of adulthood comes with a price. That said, you gotta tell your newly psychotic 10 year olds that if it’s too hot, get the hell out of the kitchen. See how that works, but don’t let them know who told you or I’ll haunt you forever. Really.
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